Friday, February 5, 2010

Is love loosing it's true meaning in this new age?

A few decades ago, love was something wrapped inside the delicate feelings,,, a shying girl whose heartbeat used to raise,, only if her lover just touched her a little,,


but now the whole atmosphere is changed, no one is having time for all this,, boys seems to be finding some way out to take his girlfriend to bed n also girls r ready for all,, moreover things like heartbreak has become obsolete,, breakup with one,, no problem,, just move on to another,, bcoz bonding was just on physical level not on mental.. n no need to mention at spiritual level,, all is just for fun,,


well I'm not against change of society but just scared for coming generation ..whether they'll ever be able feel that depth of love,, if you have loved someone u must know how precious this feeling is..


I just wanna know your views about this,,Is love loosing it's true meaning in this new age?
I wouldn't say it is losing it's true meaning. It's just gaining a new meaning, a different one. I think the coming generation will handle it. I'm sure years ago there was someone like u who feared for the coming generation, which is urs. I should think you are handling it just fine and having no problems with love. The thing is they don't know what love used to be like and so they wouldn't compare. Even if they do like u r doing right now, it won't change anything.Is love loosing it's true meaning in this new age?
I loved the way people fell in love 'back in the day.'


I am seventeen and I have found love on all levels, especially spiritually and he loves me with his everything.


I do agree with you, it feels that love is loosing its true meaning but the lucky ones are the ones that can actually feel it.





I mean, now you get younger teenagers, say the age of 13 - 15 thinking they are 'in love' and want/having sex. Some girls are even getting pregnant. So yes, i think your right.
I feel the same away about this as you do.


There probably are still shy people who have similar feelings and reactions as a few decades more but in the public mainstream it seems people are wanting more.





It's this whole craving and non-appreciative ordeal that we as people seem to have developed more over the ages.
People don't take relationships seriously anymore. It seems to have lost meaning over time, although i think some other kinds of people can and do feel that kind of love because they have taken the time to find someone they truly love, and i am sure that the coming generation or whatever can be the same, depending on how they are raised





But hey don't take it from me, i have never been in a relationship
i think your right.





stupid young children are loosing there virginities younger NO ONE WAITS FOR LOVE ANYMORE!


more people are getting deivorced! its like these special bonds are loosing there meanings. this society we have is over influenced by to meny bad thigns and peoples atitudes are getting a little to cashual for my liking. and as for teanagers. well im onyl 18 but i think there atitudes SUCK!





lol i sound my nan oh god!
yup


love is nothing but waste of time and money, it ruins everything


ppl just say that they love each other-live in a totall diffrent world, and just 1 mistake seperates them, and when they come back to this earth, they feel life is a hell


they have a spoilt mood, and they spoil our mood too
yes the new word is sex. Love hardly enters into relationships now days it's all about physical interaction........now that is a way to express love but not always the best way to define love.











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YES... New Gen.. New Attitude... New Feelings.. New Meanings
totally agree, thigs have become shallow and physical, love has lost its true meaning
Love are selfless in the old age but has become selfish in the new age....
Yup yup yup
totally agree!


Today's ';love'; is conditional :((
nope..it's becoming clearer.....time has made love even better, despite the cruel world we live in tehre are are others outthere who still belive in the power of LOVE..
You are correct. The whole thing in a nutshell is world wide moral %26amp; spiritual decay. Love has been substituted for lust.
I know exactly what you mean. :/


Fortunately I do know what love is, even if many others don't. I've been through a lot.
Tell me what the true meaning of love is, and then I'll get back to you.
Yes it is, yes it is. Teenagers have ruined it for us.
yes
Loss of natural affection, materialistic, self motivated, lack of restraint, unconcerned with feelings of others and I want it now.





Loss of innocence and lack of genuine love for one another. I'm afraid many generations have spoke and written of this. Our society has changed and as we mature looking back we feel the loss of innocence. What has really changed? Is it us as we journey down this path?





We are at a cross road in time ';great changes'; are coming. I remember listening to stories from my grandmother as she talked about the car and how it changed her life she was born in 1900. She didn't agree with TV and the way we (children) lacked respect and were spoiled. I would read stories and wish I had been there to see the birth of all these great inventions and experience the excitement.





Be-careful what you wish for cause here we are at the threshold of many changes and for some it will be excitement while others will live in the past. I do believe cycles happen and at this time we are on the cusp of change. Heartbreak still happens read the questions here and listen to what people are saying. Hope is still there just keep looking for it. Love is still there, they just don't know how to keep looking for it when it changes and they move on to quickly. Someone will still be heart broke and struggle in the end.





My grandmother said that her grandmother thought the end of the world would come in her generation because they were spoiled and lacked disciple. So, the cycle continues.
I was wondering what the consequences would be of the hateful Child Protection programme, imported from America and really becoming mainstream since Esther Rantzen popularised it here in the early 1990s.





Anything that hints at intimacy is deemed ';inappropriate'; or ';abuse'; and any sensible discussion between aduts and children on the subject is made impossible by the authorities, trained up and ever on the lookout for inappropriate sexualisation . Feminism has made taboo the idea that a girl should be attractive to a boy or a woman to a man, or that there should be any social events where courtship is permitted, let alone encouraged. That is ';demeaning'; to women, and kids have picked up this message from them.





The kids therefore launch themselves into adult sexuality with the base instincts of animals, with precious little understanding of the concept of love.





Once hardened into adults, these loveless unions very often result in divorce, separation, or at best co-existence, which any foray into the Marriage and Divorce section here will illustrate.





I despair and will die alone.

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