Is BEST friends really the true meaning?

I have a friend that is ruining her life. She is dating this guy that is all wrong for her. He lies to her, makes her mad, and hurts her emotionally. I tried to tell her that she is going to regret moving down to North carolina with him and eventually marry hum, but she wont listen to me. Her mom feels the same way I do about this guy. Any suggestion on how I can help her? She also is losing all of her friends. She gets into fights with them and stuff like that. She always talks about her boyfriend and annoy all of us off... all she says is that she misses him and loves him and no one can understand that. I think that the love she feels isn't really love. I think it is just that she wants someone to love her like that so bad... Because of this guy, she has stopped doing things that she used to do like go to school functions andhang out with all her friends. Now she don't hang out as much because her Boytoy is a jealous Jerk... he don't treat her or any of her friends any good... everyone has tried telling her that but she just gets mad at us and walks away. What should/could I do to help her understand what she is doing to her social life?Is BEST friends really the true meaning?
Well you'll have to find a way to prove to her that this guy really isnt right!


Also best friends should listen to eachother but if shes not listening to anyone perhaps you should go find a new best friend. I hoped i helped, and good luck for whatever you decide to do!


xxxIs BEST friends really the true meaning?
I really wouldn't consider her a best friend because she's not taking your advice, but maybe shes so involved with this guy that it really doesnt matter to her...but in the end she will wish that she should've listened to you and your other friends. My suggestion would be to talk to her in private and explain to her how you feel, and if she doesn't listen she's not worth hanging out with. GOOD LUCK!